Friday, June 24, 2016

DIY Extra Wide Custom Baby Gate

Has anyone priced out baby gates? Daaaaaaaaaang. They are PRICEY! I mean, I get it. They are there to keep your baby safe, right? And safety shouldn't have a price tag, but let's be real. It totally does. So rather than spending $100 on a gate, I went out into the woodshop.

And this may have something to do with why it's been so long since I posted anything. Shop time takes time. Especially since I forgot to photograph most steps. So yeah. Sorry 'bout that.

Will you forgive me if I give a reveal picture at the beginning of the post instead of making you wait until the end?



Step 1: Planning (as always). 

It started as a rough sketch on an index card during breakfast. Then it moved to a scaled drawing on grid paper. I usually do a full sized drawing next on the back of wrapping paper, but I got lazy this time.

If you are making one yourself, the most important dimension is the base stretcher. Measure the floor of your opening. This measurement determines most every other one. Ours was 53 1/4" The second most important measurement is the gate size. Ours was going to be 40 1/2", but then I had an argument with the router and it became 39 3/8". I increased the width of the abacus side panel by 1 1/8" to accommodate that booboo.

With these measurements, you can start figuring out the rest of them. 53 1/4" total length was reduced by the 39 3/8" gate door, 1 1/2" for the right post, 1 1/2" for the left post, 2 1/2" for the center post, and 1/2" for clearance of the gate door and the hinges. The remainder is the side panel in our case, 5 3/8".

I wanted it to be 23-24" high, just above the minimum requirement. I wanted to keep it low enough to be able to easily step over it. I also didn't want any gap to be larger than 2". This was especially important in planning the slats for the gate. In all, here was my cut list:

A: Side Posts, 2, 1 1/2" x 2 1/2" x 23"with 1/2" x 2 1/4" notch to accommodate floor trim
B: Center Post, 1, 2 1/2" x 2 1/2" x 23 with 3/4" x 1 1/2" rabbet cut into one long side
C: Stretcher, 1, 1" x 2 1/2" x 53 1/4"
D: Gate Rail (Bottom), 1, 2" x 1 1/2" x 39 3/8"
E: Gate Rail (Top), 1, 3" x 1 1/2" x 39 3/8" with top edge curved (leave 2" height on each end)
F: Gate Stiles, 2, 2" x 1 1/2" x 20" with 1/2"D x 3/4"W dado cut into one edge each
G: Gate Slats, 13, 1" x 3/4" x 17"
H: Side Panel Rails, 2, 2" x 1 1/2" x 5 3/8"
I: Spacers, 28, 1/2" x 3/4" x 2"
J: Dowels, 5, 5/16" (round) x 7 3/8"


Step 2: Milling and Cutting

I used leftover 4x4 common pine construction lumber for this project, though I with I'd had 2x4s. It would have been a lot less resawing and planing during the milling process. In all, this gate cost me $10 for the abacus beads since we already had the lumber and hinges laying around the shop. I used two 4x4s, so if you are making one, you can probably get by with four 2x4s... around $12 total for the wood plus a little more for hinges and a latch. This assumes you have the ability to resaw and plane the pieces down. Without this ability, you'll have to buy dimensioned wood and it'll cost you more.

Once everything was cut according to my list, I spent significant time at the router, rounding over all edges that my baby could bonk herself on. I used an aggressive 3/8" round over since I wanted to make the edges as safe as possible. This would have been even more important if I'd been using a hard wood rather than the pine. (Side note: pine is actually a really good choice for something like this. It's non-toxic naturally and it's a relatively soft wood. Win Win!)

The trickiest round over is for the slats. I marked 1/2" on all sides of each end. This 1/2" would be inside the dado and as such I wanted to make sure to NOT round over this section in order to keep the dado tight. Leaving these sections un rounded over also gave me a flat piece on each end to stabilize the piece as it was being routed, keeping the piece flat on the work surface which would have been impossible had I been rounding it over all the way down each side.

I lined up the line with the outside edge of the round over bit. Keeping the right short edge in contact with a stabilizing pin, I started the round over on the right side of the 1/2" line. Pushing the piece to the left, I routed until the outside edge of the bit was lined up with the 1/2" line on the right side of the piece (picture below). I removed the piece from contact with the router before I hit that line. Repeating this on all four edges gave me oval shaped slats with rectangles on each end to fit in my dados. Again, using those rectangles to keep the pieces stable allowed the shapes to happen. NOTE: be super careful when working near power tools. Wear protection and be attentive. Your fingers are softer than wood and the router would have no trouble profiling your digits. If this step confuses you, think about it like a coloring book, except with power tools: route INSIDE the lines.


In the end, you will have slats that look like these below. You can see the ridges left behind by the router. Do yourself a favor and sand these away now since doing that on the assembled gate would be super tough. In the background you can see the dados that they will go in to during assembly.



Step 3: Assembly




I started with positioning the slats. I did this dry first, checking the gate for square before marking the position of each slat, starting with the center slat. (This allowed me to cut the outside spacers to fit, keeping the slat spacing symmetrical) Once I was happy with the dry fit, I removed one half of the spacers, and slid the slats towards the outside. Moving them back one at a time, I glued each spacer in place before tacking the spacer with two brads. The brads are only there to keep the spacer in place while the glue dries. Once that glue is dry, the brad isn't doing anything. If you don't want to use brads, that's fine... but you'll need to have a LOT of clamps and a decent amount of patience.

Notice I only put glue on the center of the spacers. The slats need to be dry so they can move seasonally. You don't want glue from the spacers to get onto your slats.


Repeat this with the rest of the slats. Once all the slats are in, measure the end spacers and cut them down to size so they aren't protruding out of the dado. Glue and brad the end spacers.

Next attach the stiles to your gate rails/slat assembly. I used Dominos for this process because butt joints aren't particularly strong. That being said, unless your child is the Hulk, you could probably get away with attaching the rails and stiles using good ole' glue and screw method. It's your call. Part of the reason I did this project is that I've been feuding with the Domino and needed a low pressure project to figure it out. While I don't have my Domino technique perfectly down yet, I got it to work. And pine is soft enough that it was easy to sand the joints smooth (thus hiding my poor Domino technique).

Next assembly is the Abacus Side Panel. Mark the positions of your dowels for the abacus. (Find the center point between where your rails will go, then mark away from that center point to locate the 5 dowel positions. Mine were spaced just over 2 1/2" apart.) I used the doweling jig to find the center of the width and make sure I was drilling perfectly 90 degrees in using a 5/16" bit. This could also be done with the drill press, but I have trouble keeping my piece aligned when I use the press. AKA: the doweling jig is my friend, and the drill press is my weird uncle that I tolerate when I need to.


To get perfect placement, use the aligning lines on the side of the jig to match your pencil marks. The jig will handle centering the hole on the width of the piece, so all you have to do is match this one mark, tighten the jig and drill to your depth. I drilled 1" into my piece. I kept that consistent by putting a piece of masking tape on the drill bit at 2 1/2"  from the end. (1 1/2" for the jig depth plus my 1" finished hole)


There aren't a lot of pictures from here on, because the side panel was a tough glue up with a lot of pieces that needed to be positioned quickly before the glue set. But you'll get the idea. Align your pieces where they need to go. Ease the edges of your dowels so they will slide in easily (or at least easier) during assembly.

Place your dowels dry. With 1" depth, trust me, they aren't going anywhere. Once my dowels were set firmly in one post, I glued in my Dominos to my center post (I rested the rabbet hanging over the edge of the table to keep the piece level on the table and give me the full other post to whack with the mallet.) Getting the other post attached required the use of that mallet. Very carefully, yet working quickly, I aligned all the dowels and my dominos, tapping it with the mallet to keep things moving together. Finally, I got it together. I lifted it up in victory!


... and then noticed that I had mis-oriented my post so the post was upside down. UGH! So as quickly as I could before my glue set, I whacked it apart using the mallet, chased down the abacus beads that had gone flying (including one that eluded me under the miter stand) and repeated my alignment and mallet assembly. 

And this is why you have no pictures of any of this assembly. It was chaos. And more than a little muttering insults at myself.

Once it was assembled correctly, I finished bringing the joints together using parallel clamps. I've got to tell you, if you aren't particularly muscular, using clamps to pull your pieces together is the way to go.

Step 4: Sanding, Finishing, Final Assembly

Sanding is so boring, but so necessary. Remember you don't want any splinters that could catch on little hands. Thankfully, pine is soft and sanding isn't as arduous as it could otherwise be.

I chose to dry brush on paint using just leftover trim paint. Dry brushing allowed me to keep the grain of the wood visible (thus making it clear that it's real wood) without leaving it unfinished. I also like the softness and slight rustic feeling of the whitewashed appearance once it's dry. For anyone wondering, once paint is dry it is also non-toxic. Apparently from what I've read all finishes sold within the US are required to be non-toxic once dry. 

Finally, assemble the unit by screwing the posts to the stretcher from the underside of the stretcher up through the bottom of the posts --- make sure to align the inside of the notch with the edge of the stretcher if you have floor molding like we do. 

Attach the gate to the side post using heavy duty hinges. Attach your gate closing hardware... which we still need to re-buy. Ugh. Let me know if you find something awesome because my hunt isn't going well. We have a temporary latch that is keeping it closed, but doesn't help align it vertically. I'd like the gate to get some support from the latch to relieve some of the pressure from the hinges.

In the meantime, get ready for the cuteness!


It's just high enough for E to peek over it. She's still in the cruising phase and she likes to use it to walk along. Note how the rabbet in the center post catches the gate.


She has discovered the abacus beads and loves them! I had thought about painting them, but ran out of ambition. While E isn't particularly mobile, she has a little friend that comes over and has already fallen down our stairs three times. Getting the gate up to contain our friend was important. Hopefully I'll have made a decision, purchased, and installed new hardware before friend L comes over again.


Once more: the (mostly) finished gate.



I like the way in turned out. What do you think? Was it worth the money I saved? $10 for a wide baby gate? It's not adjustable, but I'm pretty sure we can sell it to any one of the neighbors when we move. We live in military housing so everyone has pretty much the same house around here. What do you think? What should I sell it for once we move?


Stitch Fix Review: June 2016

I find myself deep in contemplative thought today... burdened with truth to share with you, though it may be hard to hear. Are you ready?

Budgets. Suck.

There, I said it.

This fix, my stylist Sarah absolutely nailed it style wise. I wanted to keep everything. I mean, I seriously thought about telling Paul we needed to eat Ramon Noodles for a couple of weeks to support my fix. Gosh, it really is a bit of an addiction, isn't it?

In case you haven't heard about Stitch Fix, it's a styling service that sends you 5 clothing items for you to try on in the comfort of your own home. You keep what you want and send back what you don't in a postage paid envelop. The service costs you a $20 styling fee, which is applied towards anything you purchase. I love it because I'm reinventing my style now that I've left my corporate job behind and am embracing my life (and new post baby body) as a stay at home mom. Though, to be fair, my "corporate life" over the last few years was working from home in yoga pants and a messy bun --- further evidence that I needed style help.

If you want to try it out, please use my referral code!stitchfix.com/referral/7254645



Now for the fun stuff: the clothes! In the box comes a style card with suggestions of how to wear your new items. Some people don't care about these cards. I am NOT one of those people. I would never think to pair my new clothes with some of my other items. I admit it, my general dressing routine is 1) find shirt in laundry basket of clean clothes that I haven't put away yet, 2) dig in the same basket for jeans and 3) don't find jeans in the basket, so grab a pair out of the semi-dirty pile on top of the hamper in the closet.

I'm not proud, but that's the way things go around here. So, basically, left to my own devices, an outfit is shirt + jeans + maybe shoes. Done. See again why I need help?


The items come folded neatly in the box with just a hint of the colors and textures you have in store for you. I can't describe what fun it is to peek in the box and see this!


Item #1: Loveappella Beani Knit Top; $48. RETURNED

My stylist knows my favorite color is blue of any form, but I have a particular weakness for mint/aqua so she delivered this shirt. She paid attention to my style profile in which I said I walk 4-6 miles everyday with my dog and baby, so she included this knit shirt. It would wear well, was very comfortable, and would hold up to the long walks. But at the end of the day, it was just a plain t-shirt and I can't justify spending almost $50 on something that I could get on clearance at the outlets for $10. Had I kept the other items for the 25% off discount, this puppy would have been free and very welcome in my closet.


Item 2: Loveappella Gaura Back Detail Knit Top; $54. KEPT

I have a thing for stripes, but I don't own a lot of them. Navy blue and white? Absolutely love it. I'm not afraid to admit that I may have hugged this shirt a bit before I even tried it on. Then I saw the bow on the back and knew without a doubt that it was going to have a home in my closet.



Item 3: Emer Printed Straight Leg Pant; $98. KEPT

 So you got a little peek at these pants above, because my stylist recommended I pair the Emer pants with the Loveappella. I kinda like them together, but then I looked at the style card which showed a jean jacket with the pants and TADA - it worked! Amazing what the third item does to complete the outfit. I had asked for Emer pants because I saw some on Pintrest and was loving the idea of zipper-less pants. I also love my Liverpool Mira Jeans from my first fix for the same reason. Now that I've lost a bit more of the baby weight, I will probably be asking for another Mira in my new size. (Yay!) But I digress...

These particular Emers are a bit of a stretch for me. They have the subtlest little pattern to them: just a little 1" geometric woven into them. Its very subdued and you have to be close to see it. I'm not generally a pattern on the bottom kind of person because I feel like it usually draws the eye down. When you are a 5'3" lady with a bit of a pear shape, you don't usually draw attention to your lower half, but I'm giving these pants a try. It's a $98 risk, and one I don't take lightly, but I think I can do this. Stitch Fix is all about branching out and pushing your comfort zone. So, here goes. I'll let you know how it goes.


Item 4: Marlow Jersey Shirt Dress, $118. RETURNED.

I really wanted to keep this dress. I mean, really REALLY wanted to keep it. I can't describe how soft the material was and how it felt on. Being a shirt dress, it was breastfeeding friendly, something I emphasized in my profile and Sarah keeps in mind when she sends me items. The length hit just the right place on my legs to lengthen them and somehow make them seem slimmer too. This dress was magical and I loved it.

But it was $118. Which would have meant it would have been the only item I could have kept this month. We had a lot of expenses crop up this last month: an almost $300 tow bill from a oopsie parking job plus needing to buy airfare for a wedding coming up in Sept. So yeah, I had to be super selective this month. Which I didn't like to do.

So, sadly, I gave this dress one last longing look and placed it in the return pile. Boo.


Item #5: 41Hawthorn Kasside Faux Wrap Dress; $68. RETURNED

Ok, first of all, I apologize for the really ridiculous pose. Yikes. But the little one started fussing and the dog kept trying to play and I gave up getting a decent shot. So, yeah. Welcome to the faux-bow tie pose. Ugh.

I really did like the way this dress felt on. I was comfortable, and I knew I'd wear it to church. It was again super breastfeeding friendly and the material was soft. But it had just a bit too much material in the wrap that made me look like I have more of a post-baby bulge than I actually do. And the color was more bold than I'm generally comfortable with. That being said, Paul really liked it and I liked it enough that had it not been a lean budget month, it would have found a place in my closet.


There ya have it: my June fix. I'm sad to say I changed my fix frequency to be quarterly instead of monthly, so we won't get another one until September. On the upside, that one will arrive just before that wedding that hit our budget this month. Soooo... between already paying off that trip now and not getting a fix for a few months, I should be able to have the budget to keep more items. I've already updated my style note to ask for good travel clothes: a casual dress for the outdoor wedding, a comfortable pair of travel pants and a versatile jacket for the trip and autumn in general. We'll see what Sarah sends me... Gosh, how am I going to wait that long?!?!

Trust me. Sign up for a fix. It's like Christmas. Whenever you want.